It's
a regular occurrence in most small group/bible studies: Prayer requests. One by one, each give their
requests and the group commits to praying for them.
But
I often can't help but wonder how many of these requests are forgotten about
over the course of a week and never prayed for. It's a very easy question to ask when I,
myself, often did that very thing. There was a time when I would toss my
journal back into my bag, head out the door, and never take it out again.
Sometimes I would, but often not. And to
make it worse, the times that I did pray I would start out with Dear God, but
somehow manage to end with thinking about what I needed to pick-up at
Target. Or even worse yet, I would begin
praying and then realize that my prayer was quite lackluster. I mean, honestly, I knew this person would
just have the same prayer request next week!
Now
I knew, thankfully, that this wasn’t how prayer is supposed to be. Prayer isn’t a laundry list of items to check
off your to-do list. These prayer
requests (including my own) often contain the deepest and most intimate parts
of our lives. So why was this area so
difficult for me? Why did I not possess
the discipline to pray for others, and even when I did, the words bordered on
feeling rote and routine?
I
was having coffee with a friend some time ago and she mentioned that her prayer
life was feeling a bit jaded as well.
She was frustrated because she prays and prays for things or outcomes
and they just never seemed to happen. I
nodded my head in understanding because I too have spoken some prayers that
were tainted with unbelief and doubt.
During these prayers I’d be secretly thinking, “well, God, here I am
again, asking you that thing again and it hasn't happened--again--so I'll just
ask because it's the right thing to do."
I
know that this isn't how God works, and I tell my children that God isn’t a
genie in a bottle, but I think it's safe to admit that I am victim to that way
of thinking sometimes. I mean, if God is never going to say yes, why should I
even ask?!
About
a year ago, in lieu of all this, I made a commitment to revitalize my prayer life. I started with thinking of times when I did
feel that my prayers were passionate, raw, intimate, and real. As I reflected on it, I found that there were
actually a few things about these prayers that really stood out:
1.
I
was less focused on what/who I was praying for and more focused on who I was
praying to. I was presenting my requests
to God, yes, but in a way where my very soul was crying out in faith that God
was able to do anything.
2.
I
was inviting (or begging) the Holy Spirit to intercede because my emotions were
too muddled or I was too tired to formulate thoughts.
3.
Sometimes,
when I found words weren’t coming or I was overcome with emotion, I would close
my eyes and actually visualize myself with Jesus. I would imagine him placing his hand on my
head and praying for me. I would
envision him listening to me cry and rant.
I imagined how he might respond to me, how he might look at me. I imagined myself at the foot of the cross,
crying as I laid some tough stuff there.
When
I take my prayer journal out now and read the names of those I’ve committed to
praying for, I try and first recall how he parted the sea, healed the blind
man, or rained manna from Heaven. And as
I close my eyes, I envision taking my brother or sister’s hand and leading them
to a meeting with Jesus, where we talk to him about what is going on and how
that person is feeling.
I have discovered that not only has this
refreshed my prayer life, but it's kinda fun too!
In
Christ,
~ Kristin
Vanzanten
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